2013 SERVANT Orientation

As I type this, H*VMI is completing our 2013 SERVANT Orientation training week. It's a time where the new members of our team learn more about the background, philosophy and staff which make up this organization. As in the past, I am humbled and blessed to be a co-laborer with our new staff members. Their love for the Lord, desire to please and serve Him along with their experience and education simply amazes me. They all fill positions within the organization that are vital and God is already using them to bring Him glory and reach out in their specific area of ministry.

Our new H*VMI family members include:

Steve Gentino, our accountant

Stephanie Noble, sharing the Gospel with women in prison through our REST ministries and serving as a counselor at Handi*Camp

Charles and Linda Johnson, expanding H*VMI in the state of Delaware by promoting the ministry to pastors and setting up seminars

(from right to left, back row: Steve, Charles; front row: Stephanie, Linda)

Please pray for each of these precious servants of the Lord as they utilize the gifts God has placed within them.

Legacy

Legacy is a word that holds a lot of meaning. When a loved one dies, I believe we still learn from our loved one’s legacy. We learn to never give up on something we believe in, we learn more about suffering and we learn to live in the moment.

A few weeks ago at the BASIS picnic Don and Iris showed us the trees they plant every year in honor of their daughter Crystal’s legacy. I loved walking around their yard learning more about Crystal and what a lovely daughter, mother, wife and softball player she was. There were two paintings of a pair of softball cleats in their living room. One was done by Crystal and one was done by her daughter, Robin. Crystal’s legacy lives on through her children, Robin who is now in college and Jeff who is in high school. The tress are symbolic reminders of her life which was well lived. As I was thinking about the  symbolism of the trees, I remembered a song by Justin Rizzo, the lyrics include, “I want to be like a tree planted by the streams of living water...”

I imagine the lyrics come from Jeremiah 17:8 which reads...

They will be like a tree planted by the water that sends out its roots by the stream. It does not fear when heat comes; its leaves are always green. It has no worries in a year of drought and never fails to bear fruit.

I loved the symbolism a tree can represent in our own lives. God often uses our “drought” seasons to mold us and then He turns them into seasons that bear fruit. This is a perfect example of what the Lord is doing through Don and Iris. He using their testimony to walk alongside others who have lost a child.

As C2H2 evolves it is my desire to explore the idea of legacy with children and teens and encourage them to find their own ways of honoring their loved one’s legacy because legacies live on beyond us to impact the world with the Lord's love and compassion. God can turn our darkest seasons into something He can use to help others. That is why our God is always good.

I would love to hear how you honor your loved one’s legacy and how you have seen God's fruit during "drought" seasons? Please share below.

Some suggestions of things not to say to a grieving child or teen...

“You’re the man of the house now. Be strong for your Mom and sister.” Often times we add extra pressure to kids and teens without even realizing it. We need to remember that boys are NOT adults and that they need to grieve in their own way without the pressure of trying to stay strong and take care of their family. “I know how you feel.” Even if you have had a loved one die, everyone grieves uniquely and no two people have the exact same feelings.

“Don’t cry, you shouldn't be angry.” Children and teens need to know that both emotions are okay. We need to validate their feelings as well as offer healthy and appropriate ways to express those feelings.

“Your grief will pass.” Although, grief can get better in time, often times grief never fully goes away.

“Talking about your loved one upsets others.” This may or may not be true for some people but it is important for children and teens to know that it is okay to talk about their loved one and to share memories.

Grief is hard. We don’t always know what to say, but don’t underestimate your presence in a grieving child’s life. God is using you to be there, to listen and to comfort.

Handi*Camp 2013 Update

It's so hard to believe that we just completed 40 camping seasons in H*VMI. Starting with 10 campers in 1974, we were privileged to have 160 campers and guests join us this year. It has been amazing to see God at work in the lives of the campers and guests. But God had other reasons for the years of Handi* Camp.

• Parents, who have the care of their child/children with disabilities are given a week of respite as they entrust their child to our care.

• Most of the summer staff have grown in their walk with the Lord as a result of seeing Him through the care of their campers and guests.

• We who are the full time staff have seen the Lord provide in so many ways over the years that we can all give praise and thanks to Him.

• Through the years we have seen many come to accept Jesus as Savior. This year was no exception. David, who came to week five as a new camper saw his need of the Savior and with no "pushing", invited Jesus into his heart.

Our desire is for each one to go back to a caring, encouraging church so that they can use the gifts God has placed within them to help complete the Body of believers.

Camp time is a lot of work, but when you see the Lord work in amazing ways as He always does, it makes every minute well worth while.

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