Giving freedom for anger and questions…even about God
Touching appropriately
Saying nothing rather than saying the wrong thing
Sending cards - add personal note
Giving freedom for talking about their loss
Placing no restrictions on the time of the grief process
Sending cards on birthdays, anniversaries or any special occasion that may be especially difficult for the bereaved person
Things That Hurt
“It’s time to get on with your life.”
“I know just how you feel.”
“Don’t you think you have grieved long enough?”
Avoiding the individual because you don’t know what to say
Offering advice
Give pat answers
Interpret sadness/depression as weakness or lack of faith
“You’re young. You can have other children.”
Avoid mentioning the deceased’s name
“If only…”
Quoting Romans 8:28 -“God is in everything working for our good...”…doesn’t mean He causes everything.It can be difficult for a grieving person to hear this verse at the wrong time.Understand the context of the verse.It will help you use it appropriately in the future.
